What Did I Do to Deserve This?

What did I do to deserve this? Something I've been asking myself for a while... "what do I do?!?" Well, babe.. you allowed it to happen. You never stood up and demanded that the games, stop. You never stood up to the man, for the sake of your pride. Now, you're seeing your pride was …

Toughen up, Buttercup.

For some reason, people believe that anxiety sufferers are crazy.. People believe that depression is not that serious.. and can be overcome by a positive outlook. People believe that sufferers of mental health are just "too sensitive" or "not that strong" People believe that mental health sufferers are weak minded Let me just tell you, …

Just Keep It

Does anyone else have a person in their life that makes them feel guilty for everything? A person that will give you presents at Christmas and then throw it up it your face? A person that will say "don't get me anything", and then gets super butt hurt when you don't? Those people are the …

Brand New Week

Hello my loves, We have a brand new week ahead of us starting today! Let’s make it a good one 💓 5 things to focus on this week: 1. Focus on the positive aspects of every negative situation. 2. Focus on things that better your heart and soul. 3. Focus on making at least ONE …

Is It Worth It?

Is it worth it? Is it worth being upset everyday? Is it worth being made to feel insufficient? Is it worth being controlled? Is it worth having your emotions manipulated? Being with someone who is not good for your mental health is NOT worth it. Being with someone who literally makes you a nervous wreck …

“You CANT Have Struggles”

The title of this blog is how I have been made to feel HUNDREDS of times by many different people... Since when did our appearance limit the amount of struggles we are "supposed to have"? Why can't physically attractive people have struggles? Why can't successful people have struggles? Why can't materially blessed people have struggles? …

Strength to Suffer

I woke up this morning feeling exhausted from a weekend full of overwhelming emotions.. If you are a fellow sufferer of anxiety or depression, you know exactly the feeling I am talking about. Last night I had a much needed talk with God. For the first time ever, I begged for God to take away …

What is Anxiety?

Anxiety is countless sleepless nights. Anxiety is the fear of being around people, because you always expect the worst from everyone. Anxiety is over-analyzing every word that rolls off your tongue. Anxiety is walking into a room of people and convincing yourself that everyone is talking negative about you. Anxiety is an overwhelming flow of …

What Does Depression Look Like?

It looks like nothing. It's the dissonance of strong emotions.. The calm AFTER the storm. You know when you boil a full pot of water on high?? You leave the room for maybe 3 minutes.. you come back and suddenly the water is spewing over the rim of the pot? ............ You manage to rip …

I am made perfectly in His image

I struggle.. I struggle with self- confidence. I struggle with being content with the fact that God made me how he wanted me  I struggle with believing that I am beautifully made Psalms 34:5  Those who look to him are radiant, and their faces shall never be ashamed. When I was 18 I moved off 3 and …